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He's asked me out but I'm terrified as I've never been on a date!

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Question - (6 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I need some advice, I am a 25 year old female, who has never had a boyfriend, I am quite shy, but I have recently been flirting with a guy (who is very experienced shall we say), we kissed briefly (he kissed me, like I say very confident), he has sent me a message asking me out but I am worried as I have never been on a date and this guy says he is well into me in his message, any help, advice, comments etc. welcome. He doesn't know that I am so inexperienced and I don't want to tell him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009):

Go, but watch out.

A "very experienced" guy chasing a very INexperienced girl? That can indicate that he likes to "conquer" if you know what I mean. It may seem totally foreign to you, but some guys (not all, some) just love being the first or at least one of the earliest. This is often motivation enough for this type of guy to spend several weeks/months dating someone. Just for the challenge of it.

If at any point you ever start thinking that you might just be getting told what you want to hear, then you probably are.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

GO! Have a great time! This guy obviously likes you for who you are so no worries there! And when on your date just relax, enjoy yourself and his company. Good Luck!

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