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writes:What should I do it if my in-laws won't stay out my marriage. My husband is scared to stand up to them about his marriage to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): Well, In Genesis in the Bible, it says a man will leave his parents and cleave to his wife. So, even God knows, men need to choose the wife. The sooner he does this the better. It happens a lot Leave and cleave, a simple life formula. Life by design! by the Creator!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Well, what are they doing?
I had a very invasive mother-in-law, and she would not let go of my ex and called him her "baby" all the time. I finally had to tell him that it was me or her, and he started putting limits on when she could be around or not. We never confronted her, we just made ourselves unavailable. Both financially and physically.
If they're clingy, then sometimes you can just avoid them a bit, screen their calls for a while, and hope that they get the hint. If they're rude and verbally abusive towards you, then you need to sit down with them and tell them how you feel. I would suggest family therapy, but ultimately, it is your husband who needs to work on them.
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