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writes:Okay so I'll use fake names. The first boy is David who I went out with in Middle School but we broke up over something dumb. I don't know .. we were young and stupid. But we stayed really tight friends then in Sophomore year of high school I saw this kid for the first time who'd apparently been in my school district since like 2nd grade and it was like love at first sight. I don't know why I'd never heard of him or seen him before but I had no idea he existed. I'll call him Connor.So i started REALLY liking Connor after this other guy Dean effed my over. I'd liked Dean pretty much all my life and we talked about going out for like a decade seriously but it was never good timing for us. so he was going to ask me out one day then I found out he had sex with my best friend. so anyway the point is Connor was the first guy i liked after him which was a HUGE deal for me.So connor i guess lead me on for almost 2 years because I am a senior now and my friends always said he's just shy and intimidated by u which i beleived b/c a lot of guys are. and also in our junior year i found out he was bestfriends with david. so i was hoping connor would ask me to prom but he asked someone else. but strangely i wasn't hurt at all, i just started thinking about david. now i REALLY like david all over again but i still like connor too. and my friend told me david is planning to ask me to prom now which i'm going to accept.but i fear if i go out with david like after prom is over and done with it'll ruin any future chance i have with connor since they are bestfriends. and if i go after connor isntead, it'll hurt david's feelings because i know he likes me. but the main issue is, is that i like them both and don't know who to chose ahh! lol. what should i do?sorry this was so long btw. help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): I say you go with David, you have been friends for a while and he obv wants to give things another go.
If Connors taking someone else to prom and hasnt asked you out for 2 yrs.
Ask Connor if he likes you, see what he says and then make your decision.
But I still think you should go to prom with David.
Can you please help me out. I like this guy called chris, he's my best mates cousin.
We have made out a couple of times but he has a gf and lives like 2hrs drive away.
He has said he likes me its just the distance, but he's coming to mine for my birthday next week.
what should i do or say?!?!?!?
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reader, vanessadazed +, writes (6 March 2009):
vanessadazed is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni could do that but i risk hurting david and ahh i value our friendship so much but i do like him and i feel our relationship would be a lot healthier than if i went out with connor. and gosh idk what to do lol
and don't cry over boys girl! its so not worth it. it probably just means ur supposed to go out with someone better and cuter and nicer. keep ur head up
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): Hi in my opinion u should go with David to the prom as like a friend and when its over start going out with conner.
I need some help myself!
I really fancy this guy called Tom.
I asked him out but he said no.
He really likes my friend Emi but she dusnt like him (as far as i know)
Wen I introduced him to my bffl she said that she fancied him to.
please please help!!!
I hav cried so much!!!
xxx
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