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Is it okay we're dating and we're third cousins?

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Question - (6 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *enu writes:

I'm curretnly living with and dating my third cousin. A lot of people seem to be against it, I even think he double guesses it sometimes, what should I do?

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A male reader, Tewebag United States +, writes (6 March 2009):

i dont see a problem with it. i dont even know of any of my third cousins so i dont think your that close. like armymedic said, you shouldnt have to worry about webbed feet at all.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntThird cousins so that would be your great grandparents, siblings child or do you mean your cousins, cousin?

Either way I don't think it's illegal and with that much distance between gene pools you shouldn't have to worry about webbed footed babies.

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A female reader, vamp-gal United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

vamp-gal agony auntHeyy,

If you ask me third cousins isn't bad, the thing is if you love each other (definate) then I don't really see the problem...

He probably second guesses it because other people around him do, it's just about what others think, but that shouldn't matter.

Talk to him and tell him about your worries and work through them.

I agree with 'kelly xxx' you should get the law checked in your area, but aside from that you should be happy with each other.

Other people probably find it weird because they're not used to it and when people aren't used to something, it usually takes a while to accept. Just don't worry about everyone else, as long as you're happy that's all that matters.

Hope this helps.

Good Luck!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntCheck laws in your area and make sure its not illegal. People see this weird as soon as you mention you are related s keep it to yourself or don't do it! X

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