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How can a girl approach guys in a club without appearing desperate? or slutty?

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Question - (6 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ilWun23 writes:

i have a birthday party to go to tomorrow night at a club, im 20 yrs old and a virgin and im not seeking for sex just yet but what i want is to find a good guy for me and im known to be a bit daring and not take bull from anyone although im not a fighter at least not physically but what i want to know is how to approach guys in clubs without looking desperate or like a slut.

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

anoms agony aunti would say, make sure the guy that you like is aware of your presence, if you make eye contact throw him a smile and if he still looks keen then go chat with him but be friendly and see what happens from ther, im sure you can find an excuse to get close enough to chat with him, gudluk.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

Making a move on a guy in a club is slutty, anywhere else is okay. Clubs are for hook ups and one night stands. Try meeting guys somewhere else e.g. restaurant, cafe, college, church etc. I know people who go to restaurants also go to clubs, but in a club it's pretty clear what they want, SEX. Can you imagine telling your kids you met their daddy in a club, NO.

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