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writes:Hi there,I am married and fancy my daughters teacher I am a women and she is a women, I can't get her out of my head, how do I know if she is flirting with me - she often makes small talk, smiles when shes in the mood, dresses alot better and I just feel the connection, but may be totally wrong. I have been with women before, she more than likely hasen't so I just dont no what to do. Would it be better leaving things because I definitely wont approach her and start chatting her up, thats just not me, wouldnt want to make a fool of myself. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): Your daughter's teacher might think you are the most sexiest woman on earth but, she would be in big trouble if she started a relationship with you. Parent, teacher relationships are not encouraged. Even if she did want you it would not be wise, especially as you are married. The trouble that would bring to her at work should anything happen between the to of you is too big. Her career could be over.
Work on your marriage and keep her a friend. One day if she changes schools and you still feel the same, let her know as she leaves. That way a relationship with you would be ok. And if she doesn't feel the same, at least you would not have to see her again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Vmadman, good advice what would be the flirting signs so I no for sure that she is interested in me?
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reader, vmadman  +, writes (6 March 2009):
First of all consider the impact your actions will have on your marriage, and how that will impact your child or children.
After you get that sorted out, take things slow. Be sure that what you think is real before you act upon it.
Approach her as a friend and let your relationship blossom in whichever direction in a natural way.
Of course, drinking is always a nice accelerator, but let her make a move, and you counter it.
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