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writes:Me and my boyfriend been dating for 5 years and I am 4 months preg and when he found out that I was preg he seems happy and now that I am 4 months it seems like he not happy about the baby. Because we always fight and like I told him that I don't need no stress because of the baby because I heard if you get a lot of stress when you are preg you can lose the baby. And like I say before I am 4 months preg and I have not felt the baby move and I am scared because this is my first baby and I don't nothing to go wrong and I went to my doctor on feb 26/09 and my doctor could not find the baby heart beat andd then she found the baby heartbeat but I am still scared. Reply to this Question
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reader, vmadman  +, writes (6 March 2009):
Worry is the definition of stress, and you seem to be worried.
Stress can cause you to lose the baby, but I would think that is a rare thing, typically there is a much more physical reason for losing a baby.
I know from my sister-in-law that women have terrible harmone fluxuations that cause all sorts of tension with guys. All I can say is try to sit down with your man and reason it out, let him know about your stress and that you are scared. Bringing up your stress every 10 minutes, however, will only make things worse.
At least take comfort in the fact that it will soon be finished and you can focus on repairing your relationship in between diaper changes.
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