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*ngelbettyboop
writes:My ex split with me few weeks back. I'm not sure but think he cheated on me with his new girlfriend as they got together couple of weeks after we split. After weeks of him being undeceive of how he wanted me in his life as friends of not, I sent him an email telling him I'd had enough of him messing with my head and that as we work together we would keep it as work colleagues. all sorted, and I didn't hear anything from him for the two weeks before I had to work with him again. I'm moving on with my life slowly and making plans. The next time I worked with him, he talked to me and I was civil, but his eyes were constantly watching me. On my bit of the clothing dept, I would be tidying and he would go on the next dept next to me and tidy even though he don't work on there. He kept looking like he was wanting to talk to me all time and when I looked at him he would jump and walk away. Is he playing games with me?
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reader, angelbettyboop +, writes (24 July 2009):
angelbettyboop is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI made a mistake last night,I text him to wish him happy birthday. He text me bk saying he was drunk and kept putting kisses all over his messages. Dont want him to think i was texting him just because he was drunk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): In short yes - one way or the other - he either wants back with you or is at some game - either way you need closure on this. Given this has a professional impact on you (at work) it would be wise if you haven't done so already to discuss in brief the issue and a bit of the history with your boss/hr. Having some support in the work place will be key to moving this to resolution. He sounds like a creep for doing this in your personal AND professional life. Tell him to stay away - whatever is in his head you're best away from at the moment. Go find someone nice to date that perhaps could then knock ten colours of sh*t out of him for you :) Remember, you dont need this and you dont deserve it so dont stand for it - be strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): If he is playings games or not it doesn't matter. Just keep trying to ignore him and move on with your life. He's prolly trying to get your attention just by doing this to make you think he is playing games. Or you could be reading too much into body language. Its either one but it would be best to ignore and move on.
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