A
female
age
41-50,
*uzie8
writes: hi i am with a married man but the thing is that he an his wife lives 1000 miles apart 4 the summer an christmas they hook up an i am left on the back burner till i see himm again i do love him an i no he loves me but i cannot handle being the second woman he tells me everything will work out 4 the better but i dont no i need a man that i can call my own what shall i do?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 July 2009):
I agree - if you don't want to be the "other woman" then don't - it isn't really that hard. Let him go, he obviously is having his cake ( wife) and eating it too (you), as long as you LET him.
Move on. Learn from this experience. Married men are not for REAL relationships... unles you happen to be the WIFE.
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 July 2009):
Cut bait and move to another fishing pond, one that has only single fish.
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