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How can I get him to want me the way he used to?

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Question - (23 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this lad about 6 months ago, and we automatically clicked. We rushed into a relationship, and although I knew he cared, I wouldn't have sex with him. We ended up giving up on the relationship.

A few weeks later, however, we started getting close again, and although I wasn't with him, I chose to have sex with him (he is my first) and haven't regretted it. Since then, we haven't gone out, but I suppose we are 'seeing each other'. Him and his ex girlfriend have never properly moved on I don't think, although he told me he wanted me, not her.

We're not together, but I want to be with him more than anything, and when we were together originally, I think he cared about me so much. Now, however, I feel like he just doesn't care like he used to.

and I'm just wondering if anyone knows how I can get him to want me the way he used to? Because I am not ready to give up on him. I just want him to care again!

Thanks in advance, Katy.

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A male reader, dragionz Australia +, writes (24 July 2009):

dragionz agony auntrifraf is right... some guys are complete dicks and when they take a girls virginity its like a trophy under the belt and they just move on to the next un suspecting girl... but if you really want him try talking to him about stuff he is interested in and learn more about those things so yous can have a decent conversation that can go for about half an hour or more on just one subject.

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