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*ommytobe
writes:my boyfriend and i have sex constantly. Its my wanting to most of the time. But he doesn't want to sometimes because he says we have sex every day. I'm just always in the mood when it comes to him. Am i addicted to sex? I feel like i need it constantly. How much sex is too much sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): No set rules. Every day is normal (though maybe not for him). More than three or four times a day might be construed as evidence of nymphomania, since it might not leave a whole lot of time to pursue all the other things in your life (music, movies, books, restaurants, social time with friends and family etc.)
The nymphomania can't be conquered easily, but can be held in check by arranging other activities that you can't get out of, thus forcing you to wait for your 'fix'. Sometimes what you need the most is to not get what you want instantly. A fevered two-hour wait never did any harm.
I don't see a problem at all, unless the frequency and extent of your sexual activity is causing you problems and impacting on other areas of your life. On which note, I've just re-read your post and notice your name is 'mommy to be' and you're 16-17. Pregnancy at that age would certainly qualify as a problem. Forgive my nosing - are you pregnant?
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reader, mommytobe +, writes (30 July 2009):
mommytobe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u all:)its all helped. I dnt understand his thinking but its helped me with to better understand the way i think
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reader, Mugzie69 +, writes (24 July 2009):
 Personally, I think that there is no such thing as 'too much sex.' Of course, if it intrudes on other parts of life--work, relationships with other people and the like--that ban become a problem. Otherwise, it sounds like you're a high sex drive girl. Hurrah! You go, girl!
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reader, Leykis101 +, writes (24 July 2009):
 I don't think theres a set amount, somedays I find I want it nonstop, don't look at it as a bad thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): when your seriously into a guy and you enjoy him,its normal to want sex all the time,if you did not then he would have something to moan about
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reader, S-Breeze13 +, writes (23 July 2009):
It's your decision and his decision on how much sex you have. If he doesn't want to, then don't force it on him. Ask him how he feels about your constant need for sex, then go from there.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 depends on the couple, with some people once a month or once a year is normal but with some hourly is normal, who is to say.
We are all different with different partners
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