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writes:My boyfriend and I resently had a huge fight because he thinks I am disrespectful to his friends. He has this dumn friend he considers his bff all of a sudden and now he is saying things he never said before. He is pointing out things that are "wrong" with me that he never saw before. We had argument because I found she had a crush on him which annoyed me because I know he goes talk crap about me to her when he is mad at me. I don't respect her or some his friends because I been in his life for almost 2 years now and them girls are still flirting with like if my existence was oblious. I don't like those girls around himWas I wrong for being mad at him for keeping her around?
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reader, Quacked  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 In short - Yes.
Asking someone to choose between you and friends (regardless of sex) is one step towards the end. Don't get me wrong here i understand your point, that you don't like those girls flirting with him but the question is - do you trust him? If you do then don't worry. Talk to him and explain how hurtful it is that he allows them to flirt and that you'd like to get on with his friends but you feel a little jealous.
By arguing over his friends you are just pushing him closer to them. Plan some time together and try to accept his friends - even if you don't like them that much.
Hope this helped...
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