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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i fell in love with my best mate...told him how i feel...and he said the timing is wrong and wants to be friends. we became friends but more distant. still talk to each other. things always bring us back together when we spend time apart.in jan 09, i started working with him...he helped me get the job. at that time i didnt feel the way i used to. since abt april 09...things have changed so much. i am in love with him again...and feel i cant live without him.how he feels? since april 09, he started to be diff towards me...in may 09, he admits to our colleague he could easily marry me and that im such a nice girl...cant get anyone decent.anyone who see us would think we are a couple...we live in each others pockets...we spk everyday on the phone! tell each other everything...i mean everything!!June 09...i got a marriage proposal ie arranged marriage..started noticing a chnage in my mate. the day i was meant to met this other guy..he calls me at the very same time..but later says it was an accident. i call him later...tellin him how it went. he tells me no guy is good enough for me and he wants to marry someone like me. it ended with other guy...he rejectd me.i get invited to a party...he invites himself. we both get drunk. both tell each other how we feel...admit we love each other! but he keeps telling me i deserve the best. i tell him abt being rejected from other guy.days later...we spk abt this convo and he both laugh.week later...he comes out with 'what u gona do when we get married?' i said who said we gettin married! he said true who said!!!two weeks later...he admits to our colleague he is scared...relationships and marriage dont always work out...he is scared if we dont work out he will lose me for good...and if we friends i will always be in his life.what do i do? we both know how good we are for each other. we both know each other too well. his not perfect but i truly love for who he is...his my best friend.he gets so jealous...few weeks ago he gave me silent treatment and when he found out i was seeing a male client outside the office he started talkin to me again. when he knows im going out where there gona be other guys..he will call me before i go and say he forgot.mon nite...he tells me im amazing...amazingly stupid, amazingly sweet, amazingly annoying...amazingly caring etc.yest he tells me im the best.today is his bday...he has invited me round to cut cake with his family.he is the one.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Why do you have to get married you could try taking it slow move in together etc you say hes the one so go for it but i would suggest holding off the marriage thing for awhile.
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