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writes:Quick question for men: what do u like from a girl at the beggining ? What is the thing that u look for a girl that u think in a long term relationship with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (24 July 2009):
Ok, here's a list...
1. Reasonably attractive - no models need apply, but does she care about herself? No need to spend a fortune on cloths, but have a sense of style, even if it's on a budget.
2. Can she carry on a conversation, using real words, full sentances, and about something meaningful?
3. Does she have an eduation, or is getting one?
4. Does she have a brain? Smarts count over looks...
5. Is she reasonably open to stuff? If she only eats boiled chicken and white bread, odds are good there's zero sense of adventure...
6. Is she a non-smoker? kissing an ash tray is no fun... an occasional cigerette is ok...
7. Is she financially responsible? No one wants to be an ATM... if you need money, move back with your parents...
8. Will she listen, or just talk... talk... talk... being self centered is a good way to be lonely. If it's all about her, with will never be about us.
9. Does she talk about how the world is out to get her, the wrongs her parents did to her, her school teachers, ex-boss, ex-boy freind... RUN LIKE HELL, you'll be on the list soon...
10. is she needy? If so, you're not...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): It is not about wanting a long term relationship as i recently learned it is about keeping it long term,my girlfriend was honest,funny,truthful,beautiful,sexy,trusting all the qualities i wanted in a woman i soon learned how selfish she could be and we became short term as she was still just as selfish 18 months on
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Looks, age, social class, morality/ethics, healthy relationship history, no kids. And how well we get along as best friends as much as anything.
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reader, alwaysreadyandwilling  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Honesty and faithfulness and ability to listen. Fun, and horny. Unfortunately a lot of them can be false on dating sites coz its just a case of,if it doesnt work out,then just look thru the profiles again. This is why its easy to walk away. A no go is any woman i find posting pics of her privates to perverts because it makes them feel good. I had one like that once. Dont let me paint a bad picture on this coz theres lots of encounters good and bad.
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reader, Rogerramjet  +, writes (23 July 2009):
Eh, personally i look for someone that will A) have a similar sense of humour to my own. I have a very biting, sarcastic sense of humour that can be mean sometimes. I need someone who can match that and understand when i'm being funny.After that i hope for someone who is not an idiot. To be truthful i hope for someone with a bit of an artistic personality.. The soul of a poet..I like a little spunk. Someone who isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in and is willing to fight.I also hope for someone who is tolerant of differing religious beliefs.Once those conditions are met, it becomes about sex ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): depends on the guy most guys look for different things just dont be bitchey and ull b ok lmao
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reader, uncle Frank  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Virginity for one, or ,if she was virgin when she got married and she is now a widow, that the husband was the only man she 'knew'.
Frank
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