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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was wit my boyfriend for 5 month... he was first love, my first everything... bt wen he cheated on me (twice) everything fell apart and I broke up wit him.Now ever since I broke up wit him my relationships with men have been down hill. But nt jt with men... also wit my family, and friends...I believe its because I have trust issues n because I dnt wanna get hurt again. I blame my ex boyfriend in the cause of this... my question is will I be able to trust again? When will I known its right? Will I ever get over the fact that my boyfriend cheated on me n that every man is not the same?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): you will do in due time ..... i had to get over the same situation although my relationship was 3 years ..... the key feture is to not care if you dont care then you wont get hurt, sure show some feelings and that but you cant trust hardly anyone anymore escpecially in this day n age! just give it time youll be fine xx hope ive helpedxx
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reader, PINKISH +, writes (23 July 2009):
 You do not need to forget that he cheated on you. That is a fact and will always be in your memory- but you really do need to remember that you are a person regardless of who you are with. You do not need to have a boyfriend 100% of the time- especially if you are insecure about them because then you will end up in even more unhealthy relationships! Find out who you are and exactly what you are looking for in a man- and then if you find one woo hoo!! Good for you -if you don't find one then at least you won't be hanging around with scummy dirtbags that don't respect you or take care of your emotions.
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