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writes:my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years he moved straight in with her after only knowing her for 3 weeks and this is true as she told my ex sister in law that they been together for that period so i know its true. she has a 8 year old boy too since moving in with her he used to text me a couple of times a week since may he text me on one occassion 28 times within a month and then the other week he text me 18 times saying things like who am i going to the beach with etc . well she found out he been texting as he told her that he text me a couple of times (mad for telling her but at least he been honest) maybe wanting to see her reaction ??? unsure of this but perhaps you cna tell me ??? she unaware he actually text me alot more. she told him that he has been unfair to me and to her which i do agree on this however since then he slowed his texts down she must of said to him me or her possibly??? also i found out he doesnt hold her hand in the hand in the high street in case he sees me but he not been honest there as he never held my hand and told me he doesnt do that sort of thing in publice so he not been competly honest with her there also he doesnt want his photo taking with her and he doesnt want to get married or even have children i glad i still speak to his sister in law as she told me this as my boyfriend girlfriend told graham sister in law. he came the other week for his car tax that arrived he said to me he meant to of brought my front door key but forgot it ( yeah right) !!!!! and still not brought it around i think he holding on still. do you still think i have hope !!!! i love and miss him so much you must think im mad and you probably suggesting i move on and forget. i am doing things to keep my mind busy like running/circuits going out with friends i suppost time will tell what do you think ????? it also sounds like he still does not know what he wants
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reader, OzBloke  +, writes (24 September 2009):
It is difficult to read your post. Your grammar is atrocious as already stated. For the benefit of the reader (and yourself for said reader to able comprehend your post), you should punctuate as best you can.
I think your ex is just keeping you on the back burner as a backup plan. Change your locks and move on, he is not worth your time.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Don't worry about what HE wants... He is history. (so to speak) He keeps texting you because he likes to have you as back up, just in case his relationship with her doesn't work.
Don't accept that you are the "second" prize. Ignore or block his texts and do a NO contact. It will help you get over him and move forward.
Stay out of the gossip about this new relationship of his, as much as it might hurt. it really has nothing to do with you.
Let him go.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 July 2009):
 I think I would change my locks and then continue to stay busy. He really doesn't sound like much of a prize to me. Do you honestly think having back would make you happy? He most likely will pull this stunt over and over again.
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