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writes:Hey I really could do with a second opinion on this please; I’m even more ‘lost’ now.Here’s the background to my situation: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-invited-me-to-her-party-and-id.htmlBasically I went to the party last night (sorry I pretended it was the other day to avoid any chance of ‘her’ finding this). None of my friends were invited and I really didn’t know why I had been, but I was grateful and excited.When I arrived she just said ‘hi’ and that was it really, I met her Mum and well the party went on. Later on in the night me and her talked on occasion, but of course the more everyone drank the more ‘confident’ they became. She told me she was very happy that I came and then later he introduced me to her parents, and later told me that they liked me very much etc, so things were going well. Later on I plucked up the courage (whilst she was still a little sober) to ask if she was around sometime this week and fancied meeting up, she told me to message her when she was sober, so no definite yes or no.In the early hours of the morning she became a little bit ill, so I sat with her outside and talked a little, I gave her my jacket etc, I really tried my best. When she got tired and dozed for a bit I tucked her in etc etc.The thing is all through the night she kept eye contact/hugged her mail friends etc, yet with me she was almost ‘shy’. And the thing that’s has left me confused is, is this morning before I left, she barely looked/had eye contact with me when we were all sat talking in a group, almost like ‘avoiding’ me, but ironically she’d laugh at things I said etc. But finally when I left she was like ‘bye’ and that was it.It’s really strange, and I just don’t understand her.She clearly wanted her parents to know I who I was, and never told me to leave her alone or anything, yet she was just like 'bye' when I left.Should I text her, thanking her and asking if she want's to meet up. What do you think?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Everyone Thanks for your replies and advice.I appreciate everyone’s view points and partially agree with the person that said about ‘her actions speaking louder then words’ however in my opinion ‘if you never go, you’ll never know'. Therefore I decided to message her, because whats the worst that could happen? She ignores it, tell’s me to leave her alone? That’s better than always wondering ‘what if’.Ah well I’ll let you know how it goes :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Everyone Thanks for your replies and advice.I appreciate everyone’s view points and partially agree with the person that said about ‘her actions speaking louder then words’ however in my opinion ‘if you never go, you’ll never know'. Therefore I decided to message her, because whats the worst that could happen? She ignores it, tell’s me to leave her alone? That’s better than always wondering ‘what if’.Ah well I’ll let you know how it goes :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): You should definitely go for it cos this is very similar to my mates situation. You probably should got closer to her at the party e.g hugging but you're still in a good situation. Text her and say how much you enjoyed the party etc. You should meet up with her cos i would say she probs does like you so go for it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Maybe she's shy coz she likes you and didn't relise you liked her too. Go up to her and ask her directly. She probably just didn't want to seem to eager what with all these magazines telling girls to play hard to get.
And judging by what you did,she'd be mad to say no :)
I think you still have a chance ;)
SMJie
GOOD LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): sometimes you got to accept that they just aint into you as much as you`d hoped or liked,and judging by her behaviour she has made that perfectly clear action speak louder than words sorry
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reader, manchesterlad09 +, writes (23 July 2009):
yeah mate, definately. She's either making a conscious effort to stay cool or she's naturally quite shy once she's realized what her feelings are. Go get her son, i guarantee she'll accept your offer.
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