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*s.Peecup352
writes: Im 14 and possibly pregnant. I just want to know how most dads react?My dad is violent and im scarred he wuld hit me.
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reader, Ms.Peecup352 +, writes (24 July 2009):
Ms.Peecup352 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has hit me when I was 7, again when I was 12, and 13 but just slapps in the face. When he gets really mad, he gets violent, and I know if I am pregnant, he will be so pissed off but I have decided to have my mom tell him instead of me. Thankyou for all of ur concernes and advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Who is he violent with? Has he hit you before?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): is there anyone else you can go to? someone who can protect you. most dads would be pretty upset so i wouldn't like to think what yours would be like. try a local womens or teens group or a teacher or social services, anyone who can be on your side
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): You need to have someone else with you when you tell him. don't let yourself be alone with him. if your mother is a uitable choice or a possibility, then choose her. If it needs to be someone from a church. school counseling office, one of your teachers.. i am sure there are tons of adults who would asist you in this. At the ver least, tell him near an exit so that you can leave if you need to or with a phone in hand.
He can only hit him if you let him.
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