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writes:i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 13 we are 4 years apart. what makes it worse is my friend little sister her mums took away her phone and made it clear not to try to talk to her daughter again and her bros are pissed off". this might led to fighting. what should i do? please help me! i dont know what to do and it hurts that i cant talk to her.----->English may be this person's 2nd language, so I will attempt to 'translate' this for our readers:Basically, the boy is 17 and the girlfriend is 13. The girl's mother took away her phone and warned this boy to stay away from her daughter. Her brothers are also against them being together. If he tries to go see or talk to her, her brothers may attempt to fight him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): many people have been through ur situation that is a little bit complicated so all u have to do is go talk to her mother and tell her i love your daughter i would never hurt her and she is a amazing htat i would do anything to make her happy and just try this way and tell her mother can i tell her something in private...then go talk to the daughter convince her to meet her in some place tomorrow if it dind't work talkin with her mum and when ur the girl sees u tell her we should meet another place again
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): many people have been through ur situation that is a little bit complicated so all u have to do is go talk to her mother and tell her i love your daughter i would never hurt her and she is a amazing htat i would do anything to make her happy and just try this way and tell her mother can i tell her something in private...then go talk to the daughter convince her to meet her in some place tomorrow if it dind't work talkin with her mum and when ur the girl sees u tell her we should meet another place again
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reader, z3r0 +, writes (23 July 2009):
z3r0 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i,ve tried talking to her brother aka my friend but he said he is her brother first then my friend he knows i don,t mean bad and does not care about me and his sister being together,the only thing he does care about is that i respect his mother and don,t try to talk to his sis tell there mother consent that i could talk to her, as far as the fighting goes that's could and probably would happen if i do try to talk to her with out consent .
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Waz d scene XD
Well there you have it from other Aunts. They all say the same thing and I would say the same. You risk losing a lot including hurting her if you keep this up with her. She is thirteen after all, they don't want their little sister being taken advantage of.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 July 2009):
You need to stay away from her.
Talk to your friends and tell them that you really do care about her but you respect her mother and brothers and will stay away from her.
Let things calm down and then write a letter to her explaining how you do care for her and you hope that in a few years time you can start seeing her again.
Then hand that to your friend to pass on to her so she doesn't feel rejected.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (23 July 2009):
 i agree with busy 04
it's best you leave the situation you don't want to get into any sort of confrontation with her family. she's still young only 13 she's got her whole life ahead of her and so do you. just leave her be and let her live her life if you still want her after many years fair enough but chances are you'll have moved on and she may have.
you must understand why her mum is being protective of her i mean you're 17 and she's 13 she's her little girl you must understand that.
Hope this helps :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, busy04  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 This is a situation to stay out of, it is very clear that there could be physical confrontation, which is not good. Respect her mother, and leave her alone, as much as you don't want to do that & hard as it may be. Truth be told she is a little young & so are you. If you really want to be with her that bad...wait for her! But don't bring any harm to yourself.
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