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*orkie po-oh
writes:ok ok theres a girl i really like. alot! she said that she likes me too, but im not the only guy she likes. today she broke up with her bf and everyone thought bc of me, but idk. she told her cousin that we were "talkin" but she isnt looking for a relationship so soon. and she said it was ok if we had sex. but neither of us ever have. and just in case ur gonna say somethin about how im too young im only 14 dont i dont wanna hear it i know everything bad about havin sex and idc. what am i supposed to do? i know she likes me but should i even worry about how she likes other guys and she wants to stay single? how am i supposed to handle this? and what if she thinks im too small?
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (23 July 2009):
 You asked for more advice - dont have sex with her. You are stil too young. Go out with her on dates and kiss her if you want to become intimate but leave it at hat until you are older and wiser. She will hurt you and you will be sorry you did not wait.Best wishes!
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reader, yorkie po-oh +, writes (23 July 2009):
yorkie po-oh is verified as being by the original poster of the question appreciate yalls advice an she is my age an a virgin idk its weird she tels me she does want to date me an all that but i just dont think shes like that please leave more advice lol thank you-
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reader, Sophx  +, writes (23 July 2009):
So this girl she likes other guys, and wants to stay single,
But said it was OK if you had sex (don't go there believe me!)
This sounds pretty confusing for you, she seems to be giving out mixed signals so for now if i were you i would stay good friends until shes decided were she stands.
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (23 July 2009):
This girl does not sound like the sort of girl you want to be around. Yes you are too young to be having sex. You did not say how old the girl was. It sounds like she is very experienced sexually.
Save your first time for someone special and someone you love. It is a very special occasion. Dont rush it.
You may have one experience with this girl and she may knock your confidence and you may pick up a disease.
Find a hobby. Nice girls like guys who are in to somehting whether it me sports, music, air cadets etc.
You have loads of time for emotional turmoil.
Best wishes
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 I'm not going to preach you about sex in general, but I don't think you should sleep with this girl if she doesn't want to commit to you. Wait until you are in love.
You should be worried if she likes muliple guys and wants to be single. I'm guessing you want to be in a relationship? Well I'm sorry to say but you might not get that with her.
Don't let her string you along, and play games with you and use you in the bedroom but not out in the real world. You will only look like a fool in the end, if she goes out and dates one of these 'other' guys and leaves you in the dust.
Good Luck
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