How do I deal with him staring at me all the time at work?

A male age 36-40, *otgo2009 writes:

okay I have been working at my same job for about three years. I always remain true to myself, I know I am attractive, and that I am a people person. well, there's this guy at my job, from the beginning when he got hired to now we have been staring at each other back and forth. Not in a bad way but a good and attractive way. He has spoken to me couple of times, but I didn't want to be around him because I feel excited when I am around him and it makes me nervous. Now, I don't want to stare at him anymore, because to many people come around and flirt with him and he always acts if he has it going on. I try to stay away from and avoid him, but every time I see him or turn around he is always staring at me. Even when I am away from him I always experience strong emotions from him in my heart and mind. I know he has a girlfriend and a child and I don't want to have anything to do with him. How do I move on from having feelings for him? How do I deal with him staring at me all the time at work?

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