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writes:How do men behave when they want out of a relationship but don't have the balls to tell you so?...My b/f of 4 yrs. been very distant. Snaps at me over everything. Hardly ever e-mails me during the day like he used to. He rarely talks about his work like he used to. If I ask he blows up. He never takes me to lunch anymore, always too busy (but has time to go with other people from work). We still have sex but the minute it's over he goes back to snapping or yelling at me, picking fights over nothing, accusing me of things that are absurd. I think he just wants out but doesn't have the guts to tell me. How can I be for sure? I don't want to live like this but I don't want to bail on him if he's just going through a bad phase because of work stress or whatever. Don't know what to do. I ask him if he wants some space, he never answers me just starts yelling about something else. Can't talk to him about anything, he blows up and we end up arguing for hours. SHould I just leave? He says if I ever do that, he'll never take me back. So confused....... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): Start giving him orders, politely, about what you want that you find is now lacking. His willingness to comply will tell you more about the state you're in.
There is no try, you must do it and don't be shy about it. DECLARE what YOU WANT FROM HIM.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): he simply doesn't love u like before and since he's threating u and he knows u love him so much that u wouldn't ever leave him then he'll just keep yelling screaming shouting at u and he won't learn till the day u get him back so all u have to do when he says can u bring me water u say why don't u get it yourself even if ur busy don't worry it will only take 2 or 3 seconds with u and be rude a little then he'll know there's a risk that he'll lose u or something so he'll be affraid and get back the same human with u and the most important thing to re-impress a guy is doing a total make-over to feel alive again !!! and then he'll be jealous from the other guys and you'll be loved again so he'll be proud of taking you at lunch
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