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*chilla7
writes:I like this boy and he likes me backWe talk or actually text everyday but all of a sudden stopped, no I idea whyAnyways.. the thing that bothers me is that when we see each other, we act like we don't like each other ( crush like) When we would go to the movies with other friends, we would only say like 2 words to each other and the same thing happens at school but only we talk more by the lockers When we to end up being alone, we would talk and then be all quiet and all that's left to say is "so, umm, ya" It felt awkward I feel that when I text him I can tell him anything but when I see him, he's like a different person. We hardly talk when we see each other and kinda avoid each other. He would just look\stare at me Why do we do this? And is there any way to make it stop?
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reader, boo22  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 its always a bit awkward whan you like someone, no matter how old you are. Give him abit of time and he'll probably muster up the courage to do something about it. Boys can be quite slow in coming forward cos they really don't know what to do or say. Ask him for some help with something or other so you can get the ball rolling. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): This thing happend to me and the guy I love. But he didn't love me back... but still we were like that. a lot and we don't really speak anymore and that shattered my heart.
Don't let him go. You like each other, that can overcome any fence.
Talk to him about it.
He might have noticed too. Tell him you're upset and that you really need him. He may just be shy or waiting for you to make the first move. Boys are a strange species...
SMJie x
GOOD LUCK :)
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reader, Florence Grey +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Don't let your guy slip away if you really like him! Try opening up to each other about what you like doing, where you go out on the weekends etc.It sounds a bit cheesy but you've got to get comfortable with being together otherwise you're never going to get anywhere. The more time you talk together the better it will get. I seriously regret not talking to my first boyfriend properly because we were both too embarrased and all we did was text each other. I often wonder what would have happened if we'd spent time together properly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): i think that if y'all really do like each other y'all will warm up. that's how it has been with me my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and a half. when we started talking we talking about everything over the phone and Texting but when i went to his house or something it was like nothing later we got more used to each other and could talk now everything is amazing but it took me a while to get comfortable
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