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writes:Help please I think I might be pregnant and Im only 15. Im on the pill and last month I had sex with my bofriend (didnt use a condom) I was on the pill but about a week ago my period was late then came and when I stopped taking the pill, I started bleeding again but only for about an hour that was about a week ago but now my back has been really sore and I have more discharge than usual do you think I am pregnant please help me! If I was, I would not keep it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Thats why you use a condom EVERYTIME. No matter what. Seriously, don't complain when you got a cake in the oven. You let him do it unprotected now you have to suffer the consiquences. I have no sympathy for you. I really dont.
Well I'll spare you my speech on my hatred for little kids like you who have unprotected sex for some advice.
Get tested ASAP. Buy 2 different brands of pregnancy tests to see accurate answers. Its also good to see a doctor. If you're not pregnant then praise all that is holy && have protected sex with your boyfriend. ALWAYS. && If he wants to work his way out of not using one, dont have sex. Let him finger your or something. No glove no love. If he really loved you he'd respect your choice.
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (23 July 2009):
Well the only way you will know for sure is to get tested we can't help you on that one. I will say that i was three months pregnant already when I found out. I did'nt have the usual signs either. I was waiting for my period to come and I had a larger amount of discharge but I figured it was from my period starting, come to find out it was because I was pregnant so yes you need to get checked. I don't think your back would be hurting yet but you never know every women is different when they are expecting. The pill is not 100% so you could be. Now if you are having any other weird stuff going on that you aren't use to then you maybe. Only the man up stairs know's for sure on this one Honey. Good Luck
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reader, Together36 +, writes (23 July 2009):
First, if you have a good relationship with your parents or an adult family member, talk to them about. Do not go through this alone. You would be suprised of the response you would receive if you allow those around you to love you the way God inteneded them to. Second, find out if you are and if you're not, thank you lucky stars and begin a new life for yourself by developing self-esteem and establishing what you want to do for the rest of your life and what type of woman you want to become. Boys and one day men will come and go, but you will always have you and do not want to lose that. Talk to a family member and begin, if not already developed, a relationship that will grow and help you to become a great young lady.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): it dont sound like your pregnant at all....but if your that worried go buy a pregnancy test and find out! best way to do it and every plave always has free clinics to go to to give your prgnancy test. But to me it seems your fine and even though your are on the pill doesnt mean you shouldnt wear a condom! you can still get every disease in the book hun. take care of your body dont just use it as a toy or cause the guy says it feels better without a condom its honestly just not worth it and youll figure that out when your older but good luck and i hope all is well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Your back doesn't start hurting until the baby is large enough to make it hurt.. with me that was about 8 months in.
The first step you should take is to stop freaking out because first of all, it doesn't sound like pregnancy to me, and secondly, freaking out wouldn't make you any more or less pregnant. Wait a couple weeks and get a preg. test. If the results are positive, then you can freak out and come back here and we will take it from there halping you. All my love and best of luck..
~Sy.
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