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writes:What should I do I want to be friends with my ex but he calls me a bitch and says just give up i don't want to be friends. He really hates me and he hurts my feelings sometimes but i know deep inside he wants to be friends hes just to afraid to admit it. He says I yelled I hate you to him but I didn't. Give me advice i really want to be his friend!
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Hun he's probably hurting that you guys aren't together now and you are too and you've offered him the friendship it's there just got to give him time to overcome the break up and sort things out in his head if he takes the offer of friendship then great! but if not you can at least say you've tried to be civil and i guess you'll just have to leave it at that there is nothing more you can really do if he doesn't want to accept your friendship.
He's just being a boy and he's just really hurting at the moment and is trying to hurt you to make you feel his pain.
but as i've said you offered him friendship if he doesn't accept it then it's his fault and problem not yours you've tried but its up to him and you need to respect whatever he chooses :) if you leave him be he'll come back because he'll miss you not asking him for friendship but give him space.
Hope this helps hun.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 I understand how you feel but unfortunatly you can't make him be friends with you. It's his desicion.
Give it some time and hopefully he will come through. Did you have a bad break up? He may still be hurt from the break up either way.
It sounds like he's trying to move on, so give him some time and don't let him treat you like that. Be the better person and walk away.
Let him come to you if thats what he really wants..
Keep smiling.
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