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14 years old and seeking girl advice

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Question - (23 July 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A male age 26-29, *orkie po-oh writes:

What do girls like in a guy? And what do they like to be told? How do you just go talk to them? What are you supposed to dress like? I gotta over one hundred dollar bottle of diesel and they go crazy over it and are attracted to me like a pack of hungry wolves. What kinda things are you supposed to get an do for them ? ...

I'm only fourteen and I like a girl if you've read my past questions, you know a little bit about all that but yeah its not like I don't like other people either. I like an older girl a lot too, she's talking to her ex though. I have been going over to her house just me and her a lot lately nothing happened though I don't know if I like her or the other girl better how do I tell how much either of them like me and how do i make them like me? could yall help?

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A male reader, yorkie po-oh  +, writes (28 July 2009):

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yorkie po-oh agony auntdiesel is really expeosive colonge that shit aint cheap watch it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

i ussualy go 4 the guys that treat me bad but i know their acting just b ur self it wont hurt tell them u like their shirt shoes eyes ect. goood luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

Hey I am a 13 year old girl.

I have never been kissed or had a BF. But I know what girls want in a guy. Every girl wants something a little different but generally want a really cute guy that dresse well has a nice smile and voice. THey want somebody that can be funny, serious and sweete at the appropriate times. We all want somebody we can talk to. A lot of girls like it when ur in a relationship if u wink at them or make tease the PLAFULLY. Don't hurt her feelings.

Be yourslef.

If u go to camp that is a really good opportunity to meet girls - take advantage of that. Do one activity that girls do like pttery or arts and crafts and ur bound to meet someone there.

If u go to one only gender type of school like me u pretty much don't have very many oppertunities to meet guys or girls in ur case so I suggest that u go see a movie with ur guy friend and two of his female friends.

If u want my opinion forget about the older grl. No offense but at our age it isn't very likley that someone older wuld like someone unger. Go for the girl ur age.

If ur going to the older grls house just remain friends.

Know for the one ur age - stya in touch with her ask her if she wants to go see a movie with u and a bunch of other friends so u guys can chose if it is a date-ish type thing or a houng out chill cousual date type of thing. If u both hav facebook keep in touch that way or maybe u can call her.

Either way good luck!! Follow what ur heart head and soul are telling u dont do something ur not comfterable with.

Hope this helps :P

Oh ya P.S. I know im inexperirenced but as a girl i know this stuff so pls dont go aound saying what i said isnt true if ur older cause trust me things have changed since u were this age and girls talk ALOT about this stuff

Okay seriously bye know hoe the truley helps u

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2009):

EbonyBlossom agony auntQuestion 1: Varies girl to girl.

Question 2: Same again. Relationships are about discovering each other and what you both like.

Question 3: You take a deep breath and jump. And when you feel stupid, just laugh.

Question 4: See Q. 1

Question 5: See Q. 2

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

They like the guy they can't get. The confident, arrogant, asshole that is sweet to them one minute and a jerk the next.

Girls won't tell you this. But when you stop asking them what they want and start looking at who they ACTUALLY SLEEP WITH, this is always true.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (23 July 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony aunt"I gotta over one hundred dollar bottle of diesel"

What does that mean,what are you from Saudi Arabia trying to impress girls with oil.My advice to you is not to think to hard on this if a girl likes you she wont care what you look like how you act etc just do what comes natural and if you want to know if she likes you ask her.

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A female reader, Alexiedos United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2009):

Alexiedos agony auntYou cant force it unfortunately. If the girl likes you she'll like you for who you are not because you've changed yourself for the time being to get her interested. Could you really change things about yourself just so someone would like you? It seems like so much effort for something that might not even be worth it. If she likes you it will happen, dont worry yourself, keep talking and having a laugh girls like funny guys who are worry free :)

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