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writes:i'm 16 and my boyfriend keeps telling me he thinks i'm pregnant.first time was when i felt sick, he said i was pregnant. second was when i started my period a day before, he went mental saying i'm pregnant etc, and loads more sh*t like that. :(i can't take the constant fear, i'm on the pill but i've just recently started so he's still scaring me about it.what makes it worse is he's openly admitted that if i was pregnant with his kid he'd do a runner. :(and EVEN WORSE! he asked what i'd do, i said get it aborted probably because i don't have a job or anything, why should i bring up HIS kid on my own? :( and he goes mental because he's against abortion. :(what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): theres two words for this guy that you need to tell him and maybe he'll start acting like a man 'you're dumped' bingo ohh and don't sleep with him
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (24 July 2009):
Dump this POS... he clearly isn't mature enough to be having sex with you... the BEST was to not get pregnant from this A-hole is to send him packing...
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Cut the crap and bin this waste of space,
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): He be willing to raise a child, have an abortion, or he can abstain from sex. He can't have it both ways.This is common sense. You know it as well as the rest of us. If he won't act like an adult about this, then you need to act like an adult and STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM.
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reader, mommytobe +, writes (23 July 2009):
clearly He's not mature enough to be having sex if he wouldn't wanna be there for his own kid if that happened. I'm 17 and have an unplanned pregnancy. But my man is still sticking by me. Any one who would be willing to run away from his own girl and kid from his own mistake shouldn't even be in a relationship. Why are you even with him?
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (23 July 2009):
Ok I have a very long piece of advice for you. DUMP HIM. Any man young or old who tells you he will run if you get pregnant with his kid OMG!!!!! Not worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Wow what a mature young lad he is! How about you tell him sex is banned till the pill has kicked in, then he doesn't have to worry about you being pregnant. Oh and that he has to wear condoms too. In all seriousness, he is very immature and by him saying this it proves that when the going gets tough, he'll go too. If you haven't already, then tell him how you feel, that it's causing you unnecessary worry and sadness. If he can't understand how it's making you feel, and also behaves like this with every other situation you have or may face, then maybe you should question whether to stay with him or not. If he can't face the possibility of you being pregnant and deal with the consequences of that, then how will he cope with any other problems you may have?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Why exactly are you with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Clearly dear, he is not ready to have kids yet and looking at your age, you probably are not ready either.First of all don't get pregnant. Then try to view it from his position. He probably doesn't have a job yet, or if he does, it wont pay him a lot. How will he be able to support you and your baby? He knows he can't and he's so afraid of you taking a baby when the time is not ripe, that he's willing to risk his relationship over it. That must speak for something.That he has a strong opinion against abortion, shows that he loves children (or at least respects life). So, he will be ready for it when the time comes, just not now. I think you are lucky to have a guy that takes his responsibilities that serious.But are you sure about having a baby? Where did he get the idea? Do you want a baby now or is your boyfriend just guessing? If you don't want a child now, make sure he understands. Use condoms if you're not sure about your contraceptives.I assure you: If you force him, he will leave you. Don't give him sex until he is sure about his commitment to you and you might end up with a wonderful husband.
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reader, AppleBlossom +, writes (23 July 2009):
Leave him.
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reader, guillemarie1997  +, writes (23 July 2009):
well you break up with him or better move to another place
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