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I don't want to be a second wife but I love him so much!

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Question - (23 July 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2009)
A female Nigeria age 36-40, *exy sean writes:

i am 24+ and i really need someone in my life(a fiance),i dont want to be too desperate about it because i dont want to fall into the wrong hands. i dated my boyfriend for four years but i have broken up with him because he doesn't trust me, he is a cheat, a liar and he is not caring but i later met a man dat is nice, caring, truthful etc but he is a married man and he wants to marry me and my parents would never agree to that and also, i dont want to be a second wife and i love him so much, what should i do? because am really confused

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009):

There is nothing wrong with you. The guy is the one that is breaking his marriage. If he wants you he must marry you as second wife than an affair. Atleast he is honest about it. Well if he loved his wife he would not cheat and risk his marriage and life with you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

nice caring and truthful?... he is married! dont kid yourself anymore.

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A female reader, Hannan Nigeria +, writes (23 July 2009):

Dear,there re a 1001 young,unmarried lovely guys out there.Just b patient,u re stil young.Pray nd u ll find.U don't want a complicated future.Even pple of 30 stil ve time.Tk ur time,go places,meet pple.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

don't listen to what the first guy said because if he didn't love you he wouldn't ask u to marry him and u will marry the guy u love and the guy u want to marry not ur parents so tell them THIS IS MY DECISION! and u should respect it weither u like it or not

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

he cant love you as much as he loves his wife other wise he would leave her.... i have to say that what you are doing is really harsh !!! he has a family for gods sake with children would you really want to break the happy seal up ??? and be the one known as the familly breaker !!! if he asked you to marry him you must of already made up your mind saying yes or no . but you have time to think dot rush into another relationsip just becuase you want to find love belive me im in that situation too but you cant go out looking for love you just have to be pacient !! just forget him let him be and let him be a dad to his kids !!!!!!!!!!! think how the wife feels !!!!!!

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A male reader, BamlovesRubby United States +, writes (23 July 2009):

Yo this is clear. This guy is playing u dont trust him he will hurt u u maybe in love but is he. Really!? Ur looking at him fron a point of view but i see him from an other. Dont fall for his lies

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