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Mixed feelings after a threesome with my BF

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Question - (23 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I know i`m outta my head. For my bf birthday me and my best friend (who knows him well) had talked about a special gift. Still full of fear we planned the three of us and he was having a one off threesome he`d always joked with us about (he never said it to me alone),or was testing the water. The night came,drink,nerves,leading the conversation that way. Myself absolutely terrified of jealousy which i would have to hide forever as i had initiated it. We took our clothes off,his eyes looking but kinda paranoid about it.i told her what to do and i was talking to him dirty while they did it. We went to bed and pleasured him in turns endlessly.We did an act,or what i thought would be one but was real. We all loved it. Now i am having fits of jealousy and a very strange way of feeling turned on. I thought this was supposed to be men called cuckolds but i want to watch him with someone else. I fantasise he`s with someone while i watch and she tells me what he`s doing to her.Its not the same feeling of being turned on, my heart beats fast and a weird jealousy that is mixed in. Its took over my sex life and wont leave me. I dont want another man involved. Cant cope. what is happening? I havent told him how i feel.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (24 July 2009):

LOL, it's called "cuckolding" - the reason you're not finding much on it is because you've MISSPELLED it!

But if you reread the post, this was a FMF 3 some... the writter is a female and she says "I told her what to do"...

Odds are that the two of you should have had a more serious conversation before this kind of play. It's alot of fun, but only if you have the security of knowing how your lover is going to react. Personally, 4somes are less difficult, so long as both the guys can perform - that way no one if left watching.

Talk this out... there's no reason to let it eat you up!

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A female reader, alwaysreadyandwilling United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2009):

alwaysreadyandwilling agony auntI think you could go to an adult swinging site and find a single woman. If this floats your boat then its nobodys buisiness. Be careful not to work him too hard,and i admire a woman who takes care of her man. You have met my approval.

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