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writes:My Question, Problem call it what you willBeen dating this girl for around a year now and we are by this time very close (close enough by now that i really should be talking to her about this and not an internet).Anyway, She's decided she wants to get a boob job and for some reason i really don't like the idea. She's lost some weight recently and her boobs have lost some size but they're not tiny by any means. To complicate matters she's a stripper and this is i think why it bothers me. She's a very attractive girl now, but by her own omission she was unattractive growing up. Although she makes very good money stripping, part of me thinks the reason she likes doing it so much, is the constant attention from men, kind of... certifies her attractiveness if you will.She does have to put up with idiot men at work, 'nice face, shame about the butt' was one of the recent comments she received, and i can just imagine she's received comments about her relatively small bust, also not helped by the fact "all the other girls in the club have theirs done" Maybe this signifies my fear she's turning into a real stripper (not just a uni student doing it for a bit of extra cash). Maybe i'm upset that me liking her boobs is not enough, Maybe its just me being an insecure twat. Hopefully you can help decide...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks people, Subtly brought up, she insists she's wanted them done since her teens.
But....She's been stripping part time for three years and had the money to get them done, Maybe its just pure coincidence now she's stripping full time, she actually wants to go through with it. Oh well, guess she's not giving it up anytime soon....
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (24 July 2009):
 Nah I know where you're coming from. I wouldn't wanna date a stripper. But you're right, it's her that you really need to talk to.
I would suggest that she goes on the pill (it does make 'em bigger, personal experience here, trust me!) but I know it's the fact she wants them done and not the op itself that bothers you.
So yeah you really need to tell her what you're thinking (be tactful though, don't go making accusations.) Come back and tell us the result =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): Shes a stripper? Wow you have guts...
Yes I think that she may want it because every other woman who get nice comments in the club have boob jobs.She works as something that is entirely made up of peer pressure as you have to make money doing something that shows off your entire body so you want it to look the best probably to earn cash.im not actually a stripper or had any experience in the business but thats what im guessing its for.
If she does get it done then she gets it done.Its not up to you unfortunately however you can express your fears to her and really talk to her about it.
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