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writes:Im in a long distance relationship, which is hard enough on its own, but I have trust issues too. Its not just her, I've never really trusted anybody. With all this distance between us, my imagination runs wild about what is she doing. I love her, and from the things she tells me, I really feel that she loves me just as much. I guess my biggest issue is that she used to be pretty wild, and her friends are still that way. She has guy friends too. I dont have any girl friends, but when I joked about getting some she didnt like that. I dont want my trust issues, my paranoia, and my vivid imagination to mess our relationship up. Thanks for the help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): Coming from one who has been there, its hard, I really don't know why people do this to themselves. Your imagination will drive you insane at this point. I've thought about this and the only thing I can come up with is to remove yourself from caring so obviously and desperately about her every little move. So if she does mess around on you, you can view it as "well we are only human, and I'm not there" Instead of "How could she do this to me?!?! ARGHGSHDFSHH!"
LDR should be more of a placeholder type thing. A reservation to a particularly nice restaurant or resort, if you will. You can look forward to the uber great time you will have when the day comes, and check to see if the reservation is still valid from time to time, but other than that you just have to wait and do your own thing.
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