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*oux44
writes:my boyfriend had an adult friend finder account. i deleted it for him but i just cant get it out of my head what he did. also even after i deleted it i went on his computer and and found really wierd porn and pictures of alot older woman then me and him. im unerved and grossed out and confused why im not good enouph..he wont even give me an excuse for why he did it...and latley our sex life is going bad and ive tryed going to sex stores and trying new things for him but hes starting to go outside my comfort level. i dont no what to do and i really have no one to talk to about this can someone please help me?
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (23 April 2009):
 How are you approaching the situation? In a situation like this where you're feeling hurt it can be easy to approach it yelling, demanding or just plain emotional - which is the more raw approach but not necessarily the most conducive to a rational discussion with your partner.You mention you've been to a sex store to spice things up a bit but now you're concerned he's taking it too far? It seems you guys are at a slightly different level when it comes to what you're willing to do sexually. You need to discuss that and find a compromise.The fact that he is reluctant to discuss his wants sexually with you is probably due to his own embarrassment more than anything else. The fact that you were unnerved and grossed out by his preferences is probably another factor. If you want him to open up and talk to you about it I think you're going to have to appear a little more open minded about it.
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reader, zoux44 +, writes (23 April 2009):
zoux44 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni mean i have and it gets me no where. i actually think he likes masterbation more then sex. but im not sure because he just makes me feel bad when i try and talk to him about it.
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