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male
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30-35,
*oplessly addicted
writes:I have been in a relationship for a little over 5 years and we have had our ups and downs as far as it goes. She has cheated on me in the past and I am still suspicious of things that she does, my question is am I just paranoid of being hurt again or do I have good reason to be as such.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Not too much information here, but with what little I know... YES, you are paranoid of being hurt again, but you DO have a good reason to be. Was she frequently cheating on you? Were you going through a particularly rough patch? What brought this on? How do you treat her? Have you always not trusted her or has this lack of trust come from her infidelity?
It seems to me that you need to be suspicious of suspicious behavior. If she is going to frequent late night meetings, or going with the girls to the club and then not showing up at home until 5am the next morning, then you have things to be suspicious about. However, if you have really felt like she showed remorse, you forgave her and nothing has happened since, you need to call down and let the past be the past.
Give us a little more info, and good luck!
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