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writes:I am 19 years old and I have a boyfriend of three years now. I just did something I am not proud of at all, but at the same time I can not stoping thinking about it... I committed into someone's affair! He is my manager-38 years old--3 children.. What the Hell am I doing and why am I doing this ... it only happened twice... the first time we just kissed.. and the second time ... well.. you can imagine.. I hate! cheaters.... and Now I am one and i'm also the reason for even a bigger one... Someone please help me because a keep contridicting myself. I have been up all night in bed rolling around not able to fall alseep at night.. I can't stoping thinking about my boss and the next time i will see him. This is so wrong, and yet I'm infatuated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): if you are so upset about being a homewrecker, adulterer, why are you seeing your married boss again on monday??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI see the boss again on monday I hope to have the strength to tell him that i shouldn't anymore and will stop thank you for your time i don't know what im thinking i know it completely wrong and not like me at All! i mean geeze I have only been with three people.. maybe its was just a fling to do something totally crazy.. i don't know what drove me to contribute to this ... ugh. Well thanks again everyone
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 April 2009):
 I think having a crush on your boss is fine, but you two crossed the line. It needs to stop.
I would like Honeygirl suggested start to look for a new job. In the mean time you need to tell him it was a mistake to kiss him.
Re-evaluate your morals,ideal and values. You already know it wrong now take control of yourself. You CAN say no, you know?!
Have some self respect, honey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): The best thing to do is end it with your Boss right now!
Everyone makes mistakes and boy this is one that could come back to bite you in the butt. You could lose your job and boyfriend all in one, it's not worth it girl! Just don't do it again. Your boyfriend, well if you tell him chances are he'll dump ya. If you choose not to tell him, get another job and stay away from other men. That grass is greener on the other side is never true and now you know, so move on. Hope everything goes well and that your a lot smarter now. NO MARRIED MEN, EVER.
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reader, Who +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Do you want to be powerless and exploited by your boss? Only to have him kick you out of his bed and lay you off when he tires of you and finds another 19 year old employee to take advantage of? If so stay at your current job.
Otherwise get a new job as soon as possible.
It may look like sleeping with the boss will give you advantages, but he has done this before and has figured out how to make it look like you are getting a good deal, when you are not.
Best of luck.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Okay, what you need to do is find yourself other employment. You are in lust, and that is okay if the other party is not married. I am sure you are not his first fling and you wont be his last! How would you feel if you found out your boyfriend was cheating on you?? Now imagine how his wife will feel when she finds out!! Start looking for a new job NOW!!
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