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writes:I am struggling getting over a relationship from 9 years ago. He was my first real boyfriend and I gave everything to him. I broke it off with him after a year when I found out he was hiding the fact he was looking at porn on the computer and wouldn't talk to me about it. He wasn't very good to me overall and I never felt like I could be myself with him. I was single for over seven years and have just started dating a great guy about 9 months ago. A year and a half ago my ex found me and emailed me on facebook. He told me he has been engaged to a woman for four years (to lazy to get married...his words). First off... why would he email me on facebook? I just found out they recently had a child together. I don't want him... trust me... but why I am I so bothered by the fact that he is engaged and has a child with another woman?
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reader, sherah1982  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Wow that actually sounds a lot like me!! I was with a guy for a few years. We broke up because i knew he was doing wrong. Not only with the porn, but he was actually meeting up with girls he met on chat lines. He was also getting hooked up with random girls by his friends. I gave him my all. He never worked, cleaned or even cooked for me. The only thing he could do right was you know what, lol. But anyways, he recently got in touch with me on myspace. He like your ex has a fiance and a child. I was in a relationship with a man i loved and wanted to spend the rest of my life with. But, for some reason it still bothered me. We talked for hours, and i felt better at the end of the conversation. I realized that we never really closed the relationship properly. I still had things i wanted to let out. Therefore part of my heart was stll in the relationship that ended soooo long ago. Maybe you should lift the weight that you might not think your heart has!! worked for me
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