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writes:I have been in a long term relationship (5 years) with a woman and I have recently met another woman that has given me all these strange feelings, i dont if you would call it love, but i cant stop thinking about her and im longing to be near her so bad its making me sick to my stomach. I dont understand how this could happen. My relationship at the moment isnt very good and my girlfriend and I fight more often than not. But i dont know what to make of these new found feellings for this girl that ive known only for about two weeks! What should i do? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 April 2009):
Kellyxxx is right that this stuff fades and it could just be your subconscious reaching out and grabbing something as a nice distraction from your relationship problems.
But I would say you should use this as a kick up the bum to sort stuff out with your girlfriend. Sit her down and talk CALMLY about why you argue so much and if the relationship could go back to being great, or if it has just run its course.
It's not a waste if you end it now. I bet you have had some great times over the 5 years. But you shouldn't stay with someone just because you've lasted this long.
Try your best to sort things out with your girlfriend once and for all and if it doesn't work then break it off with her. Give it a few weeks to get your head straight and get her out of the picture. Then give this new girl a call.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (23 April 2009):
 You are feeling lust and excitement however don't leave your girlfriend! These butterflies in the stomach don't last forever and they will wear off! Remember when you had them when you met your girlfriend!! Stay with her and be true to her! You have been together for 5years, why waste all of that time? X
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