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Why does penetration hurt now when it didn't before?

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Question - (23 April 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been sexually active for over 2 years now. I've only ever been with 2 guys, both my boyfriends. My current boyfriend and I have been sexually active for 4 months now. Penetration has started to hurt when we start having sex and I am wondering why? I am worried I may have an STD or something? Once we start having sex it stops hurting, it is just the initial penetration that hurts and sometimes if he puts it back in after taking it out. It never seemed to hurt like this and now I even get a little scared for him to put it in. Please help inform me if you know or have some idea what is wrong??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009):

i would go get checked for a std right away. I went through the same thing,and it turned out to be trichomonaisis.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

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With my first boyfriend we were eachothers' firsts so I know that neither of us had an std. With my current boyfriend we are both eathothers second person but when we started we knew that neither of us had an std. I'm almost positive it isn't an std seeing as neither of the guys i've slept with has a history of one and it only hurts during the initial penetration. But it still worries me that somehow there could be a chance that it is??

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A female reader, Audrina Australia +, writes (23 April 2009):

Quick trip to the doctor to get yourself screened for stds, these are really serious if left untreated. At least if ur clear then doctor will rule that out and check for other problems that it might be.

Don't be too worried nearly everybody contracts a std at some time in their life, but make sure ur bf get checked too, it sounds likely that you have got it from him or ur last bf if it is an std.

Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

Did you have surgery of any kind down there? I'm wondering if you did if a doctor left one of his instruments in there?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

Go to the doctor, it may be something like a yeast infection but you cant mess around with this sort of thing.

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A female reader, jessylisa United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2009):

try lubrication and more foreplay, it sounds like your not fully aroused when he stars penetration!!

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