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41-50,
*lphamale
writes:Hi, I'm a 28 year old man, I have been in this relationship for about 5 months.The first time she told me I wasn't her type. She told me she liked dark Skinned men and I'm fair skinned Half-italian half-spanish. She also mentioned she was missing her ex boyfriend a lot. I felt I was 100% into this girl but I sometimes I felt underappreciated. A few days later tells me SHe wasnt thinking right and wanted to be with me.The Second time she tells me she has too much going on in her life. Work, School, family issues, and felt she needed to be alone (another dump) this second time I didnt feel as bad as the first time. I told her basically ok whatever have a good life. Now she is calling me to see if we can work things out, I think I had enough. I like her definitely but I feel I'm just wasting my time if I give her a chance, what should I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): Man to Man, just let her go. If you want, you can treat her like a friend next time she tries to come around, but she is playing games, and she doesn't know what she wants. You're better off just focusing yourself on your own personal goals and not spending anymore time thinking about this chick. It sounds like she pushes you away when its convenient for her, and then she tries to get your attention again when it's convenient for her as well, she probably is seeing other guys and not being respectful of your situation. Just tell her to grow up and that you don't have time for her anymore. She'll probably come running at that point, but I suggest you stay away,lol. I've been there. Good luck
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reader, hoplessly addicted +, writes (23 April 2009):
well like most men and i use the term most cause i cant speak for everyone but you have the fear of rejection associated with the first two attempets at a relationship with he my advice is play ball and hopefully you dont go down swingen, give her one more shot but express to her your fears of taken her back and go from their I wish you luck
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