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Should I move to be with my LDR?

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Question - (23 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I dated a girl for two months, then she got out of the military, and moved back home..... to the other side of the country. We have talked on the phone everyday, sometimes for 3 or 4 hours. We have had some fights and arguments, and come close to ending it a few times, but we have worked it out, and want to be together. We both believe that we have found "the one" in each other.

It's been five months since she left, and we have flown out and visited each other, once each. Now I'm thinking of moving to be with her. She really wants me to. We both believe we have a future together, but there's no way to know unless we try, which means we have to be together. So, we dated two months in person, and five months long distance. Am I crazy for moving to be with her? I don't think so. I don't want to regret not giving it a shot with someone who might just be the person I spend the rest of my life with. I love this woman more than I ever thought it was possible to love someone, and she feels the same way about me. Thanks for the input.

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (23 April 2009):

niki20 agony aunti think you should give iy a shot, you say you never know unless you try and you wouldnt, so try if things dont worl out have a back up plane, but i dont think you would need it. good luck :)

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