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Eye glass fetish anyone?

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Question - (23 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *arrie191204 writes:

I need to know more about my partners fetish for women wearing eye glasses(not sun glasses).Do any other women have partners with this fetish,or are there any men who have this fetish?What is it about the glasses that do it for him!Also i don't need glasses and the glasses i have tried on hurt my eyes(i have great vision).Where can i get some that are plain glass?I have only just found out about this fetish so we haven't experimented with it yet and i'd like to make the 1st time i wear them in bed extra specail and need some tips from people with this sort of experience!?!?!?Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010):

I have that fetish. Extremely high level. I can even worship those pair of glasses if I lose myself... (Perfect combination of music, environment, ambience and partner)

I am trying to get this fetish concrete to to you using myself as a reference.

Yeah we all know that eyeglasses contains some spark of intelligence because of the reflection of light... bla bla... and it contains some kind of innocence in it too. Taking off that glasses at the climax resembles some issues about virginity. For me.

Also let me tell you some facts about glasses and frames.

Glass is a hand crafted material and the only material that made out of ordinary sand for containing but still lets you see the shape, form and beauty behind or inside it. The texture, transparency, refractions and tiny rainbows, reflection, purity. I always gaze the glass concept with awe. I may even kneel sometimes.

Frames are also a big deal. They mean bounds from the outer world. An object in a frame does not belong to this world. It owns its own world. As an artist frames means a lot for me for the sake of shape, form.

This two put together and put in front of the eyes, which is a novel subject in this case... Let me worship the pure perfection.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010):

Although I hate the sole concept of 'Accessory', I got a high fetish level for those eyeglasses.

If I get grave serious and try to solve the psychology behind it using myself as a reference. My idea is...

Eyeglasses contains some kind of innocence and intelligence in it. And they solve your sight problems. Eyeglasses contain two main things.

Glass is a material that is human crafted. Made out of sand. Sole idea of glass contains miracles in it, so I kind of worship Glass. The feeling, the texture, solidity, transparency and all kinds of physical qualities...

Frames are the quite big deal because I am an artist. Bounds, shape and form.

This two gets one in the Eyeglass. Pure perfection even though mass produced.

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (23 April 2009):

I wouldn't call it a "fetish" but I sometimes find glasses especially attractive on a woman. My wife and I have used them occasionally, but not often.

Could be the implication of above-average intelligence: I'm REALLY attracted to brainy gals! One drawback to wearing glasses through the whole encounter is the lenses tend to get smeared, and the glasses-wearer may have some difficulty seeing her partner as well as if she wasn't wearing them.

Or maybe it's the fantasy of seducing a passionless, nerdy, librarian type - getting her to do things that are DEFINITELY contrary to the cultural stereotypes. To complete the image, I have my wife use barrettes and hair clips to hold her hair back. Our little kink comes as everything is lined up, just one second before the penis goes in, and I take off the glasses and free her hair as she says, "F*** me!".

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (23 April 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntYou can get plain glass ones from most optomotrists. Hell, unless things have changed, you can just buy the ones on dispay.

It is a fetish not dissimmilar to stockings/garter. Uniform. Suit. Etc etc.

The idea behind it might be that girls with glasses are the opposite of the cheerleader. A bit bookish, nerdy even. Cool and remote but with hidden passion that boils over when she lets her hair out of the thight bun and takes of her glasses.

Is it hot in here?

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A female reader, LilPixie United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2009):

LilPixie agony auntYour husband is not the only one... My boyfriend loves glasses on girls, luckily i have to wear them anyway so its not a problem. I don't really know what it is that makes them like it so much...

Although they're normally one of the things that turn him on, we usually both take our glasses of in the bedroom... they just get in the way :P

As Annalisa said, talk to the local optician and they should be able to advise you on this.

Good Luck xx

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