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Is he interested or am I just thinking way too much?

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Question - (23 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Okay so I saw my crush in the cafeteria today and he was talking with a girl and when I looked at them talking he was all smiles =( so I kinda got upset and hid myself behind a guy sitting in front of me, then I looked at him again and they weren't talking anymore, he stopped smiling and turned his body away from her, then we stared at each other, I continued doing my hw, and then she left a little bit later..

I normally do not hear him when he is speaking with friends, but today he was like walking around back and forth and talking kind of loud, he usually seems pretty quiet so it was just totally different today..I really don't like seeing him talking to other girls =( after awhile (I was doing my hw) he was still walking back and forth in front of me then he was kind of talking to another girl =*( (I just wanted to knock myself out with my huge accting book!)

Well I went home a little upset, but I was thinking about it all day like do you think maybe he was just trying to show me that he is friendly? And maybe trying to show me that its okay to go up and talk to him? Or am I just getting the wrong idea and he's not interested? The more I think its like, was he trying to see if I would get jealous if he talked to other girls? I mean is that kind of a way that guys use to see if some girl is really interested in him? So tell me what do u think of this, is he interested or am I just thinking way too much? Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

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Well I know that he notices me, because we stare at each other a lot, I wish he would just come over to talk to me, I'm not sure if he just wants me to go talk to him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

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Thanks Gina~ well I've been waiting for a chance to talk to him but he's always with his group of friends, it feels awkward to go up to him and all his friends, and that's the only time i really see him is in the cafeteria =/

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