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female
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anonymous
writes:I broke up with an ex a month ago. I got hurt as i really liked him and he was cheating and he wasn't the lovely guy i thought he was. We agreed on no contact as i never wanted to speak to him again after he had so little respet for me. Today i got a IM from him asking how i was. and he tried to call. Obviously i have no intentions of EVER answering his calls or his IMs!But my question to you aunts is, what were his intentions of contacting me? i'm very confused, as i know he stayed with the other girl, and they look so happy together, so why did he contact me?
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Hes a cheat and maybe is bored with his current girlfriend and is looking to cheat on her... with you?? Ignore him he is not worth knowing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): He's a cheat. He used to cheat on you with her and got some. Why not do the same to her. If you let him, he'll use you. Continue ignoring him. I had a similar situation. It took about a year for the calls, texts, emails to stop, but they will.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Curiosity. He wants to know what you're up to. Did you move on? Are you still hurt? Have you found someone else?
Maybe he is having some regrets, but honestly I wouldn't even go back to him if that was the case. It sounds like he has toyed around with you before, and you don't need that.
Just be polite, tell him you're fine but that he did some damage and you would prefer not to speak to him as was agreed.
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