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*ovemeright11
writes:My boyfriend and I have had sex twice on my period meaning during one month of it and during another month of it cause he said he had never done it before and he never said whether he liked it or not most guys I have been with did not care if I was on my period or not they would still do it so it was normal for me to have a guy have sex while having a period. So I thought he would just join in and like it like all the rest but he told me just recently that next time I get it he does not want to do it and it freaked him out does this really mean he wont ever do it again with me on my period? I mean I wont die if I don't get it but sometimes it really does feel even better on my period or when I get bad cramps it helps. Is there a way to tell him this and help him not be so bothered by it all the sudden? Why would he be ok with it before and not now? Please let me know what you think? thank you just no telling me its gross please this has nothing to do with my questions
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): Ok pretty much the exact same thing happened to me and my boyfriend, except we have only been with each other. he tried it twice and will never do it again, you just have to respect it. why would you wanna do it with him if its not enjoyable for him. It will cause resentment. If you enjoy it so much and it helps with cramps, I would suggest using a dildo when you are on. good luck
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reader, kaykay1989  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 First of all not all guys are the same. Just because previous partners didn't mind doesn't mean he will be the same.I think that maybe the reason he hadn't said anything before is because he was trying it out and wasn't sure himself if he was indeed ok with it. I would think that him doing it again would be off the cards if he said it freaked him out. I would suggest sitting down with him and talking with him about why you enjoy sex on your period but also ask him what is it that made him feel uncomfortable. Please ensure when having a chat to him that you respect what he has to say and don't make him feel like your badgering him and that you are listening to his point of view xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): I can see where your guy is coming from. Fair enough, you might love it, but if I was him, I'd be freaked out by it too. Just because it feels good and helps with cramps doesn't mean he has to do it. Just take some paracetamol or something, rather that put the poor guy through that messy traumatising experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): Summary: He tried it twice then said he never wanted to do it again.Seems pretty straightforward...he didn't enjoy it. Some guys don't like having sex with blood as a lubricant. If you're desperate, you can propose a trade: he'll have sex with you on your period once a month if you let him ejaculate on your face, have anal sex, or do some other sexual thing he likes.
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