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Best friend flirts with me! How do I get him to stop?

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Question - (15 March 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *razybeast writes:

Guna keep it short and simple.

How do I stop my best friend (who knows I like him) flirting with me!

He has a girlfriend whom I am really close to also and she looks at me when he acts like this in a way to say WTF are you doing!

I hate feeling like I'm wedging between them and it's about time I move on anyway.

Obviously I'd love for there to be a switch to turn off from me liking him so it wouldn't bother me but I know I will always love him.

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A male reader, crazybeast United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2011):

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crazybeast agony auntThanks for the advice but to stay away from him is near impossible, we have sport training together, we have classes together and if I ignore him he will just get full on and start trying to get my attention. With the boyfriend solution I have had two boyfriends before and it never works out plus I'm not completely out. Any other advice would be welcomed :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

Talk to him about it and your friend. Mabey their relationship is rocky.

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A male reader, theaskman United States +, writes (16 March 2011):

pretend to like somone elece

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A female reader, Justtryingtohelp United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2011):

Justtryingtohelp agony auntI'm afraid you have to straight up tell him to stop, it's not right of him when he knows you like him AND he has a woman.

He's acting inappropriately towards you, playing with your emotions. Of course it's not good on the girlfriend's emotions either.

Good luck with this. x

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A female reader, Laulau16 United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2011):

Tell him how you feel, If he really likes either you or his girlfriend then he should do the right thing. If he likes you back then he'll leave his girlfriend to be with you but if he likes her and does not like you then he'll stay with her and stop flirting with him. Tell him this in a nice way, if he's a decent guy then he'll the right thing. Let him know, clearly, how you feel about the situation. I think that being open is always the best solution. Good luck

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