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How to convince EX that you are not controlling anymore?

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Question - (15 March 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do you convince an ex that you are not controlling anymore? I've realize that I was controlling and I don't know how to fix it =/ I'm definitely more laid back now than before.

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A male reader, lakers_lover09 United States +, writes (16 March 2011):

Well u have,her holdin on so thts the important part. Take it slow ans show her u r different with ur actions. She will see for herself over time. Jus keep taking the small steps like u have been.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

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yes, shes holding on as well

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A male reader, lakers_lover09 United States +, writes (16 March 2011):

well the fact that its been a year and u still are holding on can be a great sign. is she holding on to u as well?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

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We broke up a year ago, we both are still hanging on each other

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A male reader, lakers_lover09 United States +, writes (15 March 2011):

how long were u broken up anyway? because if it wasnt for too long, you arent "fixed" yet my friend and it would only lead to the same things that lead t the first break up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011):

You don't.

All you can do now, is make sure you treat the next girl who gives you a chance better then you treated the last one.

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