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*abbiecat16
writes:I've been dating a guy for about 6 weeks. Things seemed to start really quickly we text all day everyday and saw each other about 3-4 times a week. He always seemed to take things further, always asking to see me, saying really nice words, he even had a few pet names for me. The last time I saw him, he kept accusing me of being off etc which I wasn't but ever since he has been really funny with me. I haven't seen him for 2 weeks as every time I ask to see him he always says he is doing something. He said he doesn't want to have time for a relationship, he's stopped calling me the pet names, texts less often and puts less kisses. We still speak everyday though. Why would he still want to speak to me when he keeps making excuses not to see me. Whenever I ask if he still likes me or cares he doesn't give a proper answer. Should I still have some hope or move on? It's so hard to think about moving on when he still speaks to me though!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): Hm, thats really odd. Did you guys sleep together? If so, did anything change after that? I would ask him straight out why he is acting this way. No other way around it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): It's definitley time to move on, he's stringing you along and you deserve better. If he wants to be with you, he needs to show you respect and work at a relationship with you. He is clearly not doing this, so you need to stop talking to him and not let him string you along. If he cares about you, he won't let you walk away. There are so many more better guys out there! Don't waste your time with this guy anymore.
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reader, kfergie  +, writes (16 March 2011):
this happened to me with my bf. it probably means that hes cheating on you and the reason he wont make plans is cause hes with another girl. at least thats wat happened to me i would talk with him about it if i was you. good luck and i hope my answer helped in some way!
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