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writes:Hi i really really need some advice. I am a female, Muslim, about 22 years old, virgin, never had a boyfriend and I live in Asia. I study in a college with co-education system. But i don't have male friends, because I'm from a conservative family. I am perfectly sure i am not a lesbian, but i really don't understand what is the point of physical relationship, why people even want to do it? Now can anybody tell me why I think in such way and others think otherwise. What is wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): Ok, that was a stupid of me. Hei aunts actually i deleted my secret code for asking this question after i added it in my watched list, so now i can't be verified as being the one who asked the question.
Anyway, i wanted to thanx GeeGee255 and Anonymous. I was really confused about myself. Thanks to you both, because i'm not confused anymore. You are right, so i'm just going to stop worrying and wait... Thanx again. . .
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Men and women usually want a physically relationship for 2 distinct reasons.
Men typically enjoy sex for the pleasure, the conquest, and the reless. Some women enjoy it for the same reasons.
But for many woman it is usually more complicated then that, they use sex to make a man happy and keep him close to her. It makes her feel desired, and wanted, and loved. Men also need to feel wanted and desired by the girl they love.
But the most simple reason is that sex is the closest you can be, spiritually and pysically, to another human being.
It is a powerful connection of body and mind.
It will happen to you too sooner or later, once you meet a guy you like or get married and spend a lot of time with him. You will want him to hold you and kiss you and the tingley feelings of warmth and desire will just wash over you like a wave that can't be held back.
That's why they call it getting "swept away".
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): I think you have never experienced anything remotely close to it, so youre unsure of how it feels. You cant really desire something you have no idea about right?
Id say dont worry too much, you might eventually find someone and suddenly it slicks and you'll understand.
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