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writes:Why would a GUY do this? wow am still shocked.?I was with him for 5months..it was great then I had this feeling that he was hiding something, I asked if there were someone else he'd tell me there's no one else I love you so much I'd never cheat on you he sore on his mums life.Then he started being distant, saying we should talk on the phone less cos is stopping him from what he usually does. Etc: I said ok, he asked to go on a break cos he didn't feel strongly about me anymore, on the break he rang me lot of times begging to come back cos he loved me. We got back and he asked for another break again. I couldn't take it anymore so I asked him what was wrong, I had to drag it out of him, he told me he wants to be single be alone for a while. I was devasted cos I loved him:(A week after the break up I found he'd being cheating on me with since january, I asked him if he ever cheated when we were together he said no and he swore on his dead father's grave WTF!! I spoke to the girl she told me everything and taked so badly about him, I just thought I'd speak about him like that cos I loved and respected him but he didn't appreciate me and left me for a girl that says she even ashamed to introduce him to her friends cos he not that good looking. But I was proud of him, I told him everywhere, I adored him. and he does this to me. I feel so betrayed!I told him I know everything he didn't deny just said am sorry and that girl knows herself he's not keen on her. I told him she speaks so badly off him and sent me all the dirty pictures he sent to her and said that's why he's not keen on her. I told him to have a nice life and I hung up on him.Thanks..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): Just so you know, anyone who resorts to swearing on someone else's life to be believed...well it's a sign you should never believe them b/c they aren't trustworthy if they stoop to those lengths to convince someone. Another bad sign was you needing to be convince he wouldn't cheat b/c when you are with someone who would never cheat those aren't conversations you will have!
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reader, Molly0102  +, writes (15 March 2011):
Obviously this guy is a jerk. Forget about him. It's inevitable that you feel this way especially after the amount of feelings you've invested in him. It's painful but you'll get over him in the long run. I met a guy like that before and I moped over the fact that he two-timed me but with support from my friends, I got over him. The fact is guys like that will exist and meeting jerks like that only spells a heartbreak. But the most important thing is learning how to live your life bravely and to the fullest. :) remember: he's not worth the heartache and feelings. Save it for someone better. :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 I guess you just need to accept now that you found a man that didnt care about you. He was a bit of a player and got his cake and ate it from both of you. I know its hard to accept that someone who you loved would treat you like this, but the sad thing is that it happens in life.
You just need to move forward now. At least it was only 5 months you were together and not 5 years. At least this way it will be easier to get over. You just need to accept him for what he is, a cheat and a liar and be thankful that you got a lucky escape when you did.
Dont contact him again, he is not worth your time. Delete all of his contact details, phone number and any contact details over the internet and remove him from your life. It will be natural to miss him for a while because he was a big part of your life, but just keep yourself busy and give yourself time and you will soon get over him and you will be wondering what you ever saw in a guy that would treat you that way.
The best of luck Hunny, dont worry you will find a man that will treat you better than he ever did. We just need to go through some dodgy guys before we find the right one. Goodluck.
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