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writes:I've been in a relationship for 4 years now. He abused me for the first time through my pregnancy and since then when ever we have a fight where I want him too leave he finds a way to be aggresive. I don't want to be with and havnt wanted too be with him since after the first year. Sometimes I feel were in love but most of the time just looking at him disgusts me. He won't let me leave him. I can't work or go too school I can't even take a walk down the street. He even acts like this infront of my family. He says if I can't be something big like a cop or scientist etc. Then I can't be anything but a stay at home mother.he is always wanting to get me pregnant and will never wear a condom. He doesn't help me with anything he had a job but lost cause hes to busy keeping an eye on me.I have grown tO hate his guts. He plays a lot of guilt trips on me I'm very gullible. I don't want to see his face another. Just writting about him makes me wanna tie him up and pack our stuff and run away from him. He expects us both to live off welfare forever.his family thinks he's an angel they all seem sick to me.I can't get him to leave and he won't let me leave. I avoid fights cause he is unpredictable and even with our child in my arms that won't stop him. He's a piece of crap and I'd wish he would hurry up and die so I can live my life and find true love. He has ruined my life I just want too scream and say F you! Please can someone tell me how to deal witth this? Any suggestions oon hiow to leave this piece of crapv I have no family that can help I'm ooon my own with 3 kids.I never had a father when I was growing up but if he is how a father is I'm glad I never knew my father. He acts like I'm his child? I have to ask even if I can go down to the launddry. He's the worst thing that's happen to me I wouldn't wis him upon ne enemy.please someone help me??? I've put him in jail 6 times that still doesn't keep him away.what do I have to dooo?
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 Well I guess shelters are the first place he would look for you. But what happened when he found you, did he make you feel pressured into going back to him? And what did the people at the shelter do then to make him leave, or for you what did they do to help you stay after he found you? Did they offer you a safe place they could move you too?
Either way I think you should call them again and tell them that you need help to get out, what happened before, and ask them if you go there can they move you somewhere else to a safe house, right away before he finds you again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much GeeGee I have actualy been to one but he soomehow still found me and used fake IDs to see me :( this man is Nuts but if u met him you would think he's so perfect people have that opinion of him and boy are they wrong. I can't talk to no oone about it cause no one believes me and ends up thinking I'm crazy and he's so sweet for taking care of me these ppl are driving me just as crazy as him. I defintaly need to come up with a good plan and a plan b just incase I just don't know where to start
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (15 March 2011):
Call a shelter for battered woman first chance you get, they can help get you and the kids away from him. They will give you a place to stay while you get back on your feet and maybe go back to school.
Do it now before he gets you pregnant again or hurts you.
Don't let him know you are going, just go.
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