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writes:i have been in a steady relationship for a few days now and i really don't know what to do. i do have feelings for the guy and like him and that but i dont like being in a relationship itself so what options do i have?do i go along with it and hope i get over this silly little thing?or do i tell him i just want to be friends and hope it works out? Reply to this Question
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Honey don't sweat it, at your age everything could change by next week. You could have a fight, he could decide he likes another girl, anything...
As long he is not trying to pressure you into sexual contact of any kind that you aren't ready for, I wouldn't worry about it.
If you are still not comfortable with it after a few more days, just tell him, sorry but this doesn't work for me. And break up with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): if you like him saying you want to be friends will probably not be such a good thing unless there is a explanation behind it because he will probably move on and it will be too late. if you go along with it you might not be happy and that could be a problem also. I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he likes you back and see's you hanging out with another guy or kissing another guy he will probably get hurt and stop talking to you but this I can't be sure of.
I am sorta in the same type of thing with a girl at the moment, she may or may not have a boyfriend no one really knows. All I know is I love her she knows it we have hooked up but I saw her 2 weeks ago kissing someone else and I can't handle that. So I haven't talked to her since. I read her messages and feel sad when she sends the ones I miss you but people need to learn not to mess with emotions.
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reader, theaskman +, writes (16 March 2011):
im in the same problem but reversed im a guy what i asked was similar and i got this try to get closer to them and slowley tell them
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reader, Justtryingtohelp  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 It really depends on how the guy feels about relationships or not.
The question is a little vague for me to put a lot of thought into my answer but this may be something you get over it may not be.
It seems as if you don't have that much feelings for him though, I can't be sure, I don't know you of course.
This is something you may need to tread lightly with.
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